What is your purpose?

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Por: María Belén Irías

There once was a girl called Sarah, who loved sports. She was very active and could not stay still for a single moment. She was able to dribble a ball from a very young age and ran faster than all her cousins and friends put together. She had great potential to lead, thrive, and succeed. Sadly, her family was not very supportive and would often tell her to sit still and stop playing around with “boys’ things”. So, she eventually did. She conformed. She sat still and stopped doing what she naturally loved to do. With time, her hidden talent and suppressed nature took her in a direction she could have avoided had she been focused and well occupied. She became rebellious, angry, and full of self doubt. Like Sarah, so many people lack passion and purpose and are battling to find themselves in this vast world. They might be walking down the wrong paths and taking up bad habits that could cost them years of joy and health. This lack of identity could bring pain and suffering not only to them, but their families and loved ones as well. 

Norman Vincent Peale, author and Psychologist said “Believe in yourself! Have faith in your abilities! Without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers you cannot be successful or happy.” No matter what we do, if we do it with all our might and determination, we can set higher standards for whomever comes after.

Could there be something to ensure success and well-being? Might it be as simple as having a healthy self esteem? There might not be an absolute answer, but apart from love, safety and other more common positive factors, goal setting and achievement does create a profound sense of pride and self-esteem at any age, especially in young people. It brings courage, satisfaction, focus and determination, that results in a healthier love of the self. When kids are supported and loved, they can achieve their goals, and change their lives for the better.

The role of education is vital: It goes further than learning to read and write, further than learning to add and subtract…. Education leads to the realization of the importance that each of us holds in life, and the realization of what we are here to do for ourselves, for our families and for the world.

Philosophers and later psychologists have long strived to find our purpose in this world, but it is an individual one. Each of us has specific gifts that make us unique and give us each a specific purpose to leave our trace in this world. Setting meaningful goals for ourselves and developing them over the span of our lives gives us a purpose that makes us a better version of ourselves. Goals foster a sense of purpose in us and can potentially change our lives and those of others around us. People who have set goals, have found cures to diseases, launched organizations, taught kids to read, united nations, inspired peace, and much more.

When we set out to do something, we can accomplish big things and improve the quality of our mental and physical health. Purpose is evolutionary and leads individuals to survive.

Purpose may come about from our individual perceptions, gifts and talents, and it will set us apart from other people—but that is only one side of the truth. Purpose also grows from our connection to others, which is why a lack of purpose can lead to isolation or depression. Once we find our path, our goal, our reason for being… we will certainly find others who are moving in the same direction. And basking in the path of our purpose, we can be greater than we ever thought possible. Encourage yourself, encourage your loved ones, encourage others to find what drives them to be all that they were meant to be.